There is much advice to be had about how to get your lover back. One piece of advice I reject when it comes to other relationships, may work when it comes to a lover…
When it comes to getting a husband or wife back, or a fiance, or boyfriend or girlfriend, I really don’t like to see the advice of ‘make them jealous.’ I think it’s poor advice, a woman is not likely to fall for any fake shows of affection with someone else, and a man will just as likely take it as a sign that your relationship truly has no chance of rekindling.
With physical lovers though, it’s slightly different, because in those throws of passion, powerful chemicals are released by the body. Including adrenalin, these chemicals produce the rush that is lust, an almost uncontrollable urge to be with that other person.
If you want to get that lover back, it is possible to trigger the chemical reaction in them by giving them a powerful reminder of what it was like when you were together. Basically you are saying directly to that part of their brain that those feelings are there for them again, and all they have to do is come and take them.
This is a forceful message for the basic animal instincts of humans, and that’s why it has a good chance of success.
Whether the actual relationship works or not is another matter. For that to happen you need to talk and listen openly, to find out what was good and bad, and work out the way forward.
This is different to the animal instinct aspect of the lover relationship, which is why I think the lover is the only relationship that you can use jealousy to restart.
So to sum up, you may well find that triggering jealousy can be an effective way to get your lover back.